I found a book that goes against my human nature. It says many things that I don’t want to hear. It tells me to do kind and compassionate things that I don’t want to do like “Love your enemies.”. Yet I still want to read it every day. It’s the Bible.
Here is how the Bible says to obey Christ’s commandment to love your enemies. (Matthew 5:43-45) These Bible commands are seldom preached about and rarely obeyed because they go strongly against our human nature.
*) Think kind thoughts about your enemies and speak kindly to them and about them. (Ephesians 4:15).
*) Frequently pray for God to bless your enemies. (Luke 6:38)
*) Remember that love is shown by actions, not by feelings. (John 14:15)
*) Be patient and kind with your enemies. (1 Corinthians 13:4)
*) Do good to your enemy expecting nothing in return. (Luke 6:35)
*) Don’t celebrate when your enemy has problems. (Proverbs 24:17)
*) If you find something that belongs to your enemy return it to him. (Exodus 23:4-5)
*) When your enemies are hurting, comfort and help them. (Proverbs 25:21)
*) When your enemy hurts you, don’t retaliate or take revenge. (Romans 12:19)
*) Don’t insult those who insult you. (1 Peter 3:9)
*) Quickly and frequently forgive your enemies. (Matthew 18:22)
*) If your enemy slaps you, turn the other cheek. (Matthew 5:39-42)
The Bible says there are two ways to serve the Lord: “the new way of the Spirit” and “the old way of the written code.” (Romans 7:6) Let God the Holy Spirit direct you throughout each day. (John 16:13) Continually savor and absorb the words of the Bible (Joshua 1:8) and let it align your heart with and keep you obedient to the Spirit (2 Peter 1:20-21) which is “Christ in you, the hope of glory.” (Colossians 1:27)

It speaks truth, like you said, that nobody wants to hear.
You are right. To grow in God’s presence and wisdom we must become willing to humbly hear and obey things that we don’t want to hear.