The Things I Do While Traveling Thru Life

Daily writing prompt
What’s the best local dish you’ve ever eaten while traveling?

The Misunderstanding of Christianity — More Spiritual Opportunities and Testimonies

One summer while I was in college, I was invited to spend 8 weeks in a discipleship program for young adults ages 18-30. It was called Disciplined Life in Christ. There were about 30 participants.

We spent 6 weeks living in community at the Inn of the Last Resort in the mountains of Franklin, North Carolina. The Inn was run by Jay and Sally Fesperman. Jay was a retired businessman who was very excited about Jesus. He and Sally had purchased an old mountain hotel, restored it, and turned it into a place for focusing on training people to be more effective at following and obeying the risen Jesus.

During the mornings, we would have worship, teaching, prayer, Bible study, sharing, and testimonies. Some afternoons, we would work together around the building and grounds, including cultivating a large garden. Other afternoons, we would go do service projects and/or ministry in the local area. Sometimes we would play volleyball or do other recreational activities. We also all spent one day a week in prayer, fasting, and listening to the Lord. It didn’t take long for a strong sense of Spirit-filled community to develop among us.

Most of the songs that we used in worship were Bible verses put to music. That helped the Scriptures go deep in our hearts and is one reason that I can quote many Bible verses. We even made a recording of numerous Scripture songs that was made fairly widely available.

The last two weeks of the discipleship program, we were counselors at Tennessee Georgia Christian Camp (originally called “Camp Farthest Out”), a gathering of mostly adult Christ-followers from the Southern USA who were thrilled about Jesus. The camp’s focus was on passionate worship. Well-known leaders in the Charismatic/Pentecostal part of the Jesus Movement led workshops to help people learn to flow more freely in the Holy Spirit. Those of us from the discipleship program were each assigned a cabin to stay in, where we led daily devotions. We were also available to pray over and counsel people. It was a life-changing 8 weeks!

Once during the fall, I dropped out of college to experience another powerful spiritual adventure. My brother Scott had been invited to travel throughout the Western USA with 5 other sold-out Jesus lovers in a motor home. He wasn’t able to do it, so I took his place.

It was actually a job working for a stationary company owned by a Charismatic Christ-follower. We took orders for personalized stationery in fraternity and sorority houses on college campuses. However, the company owner also wanted us to be missionaries who would testify about Jesus.

For three months we traveled through almost every Western state and visited all the major college campuses. We towed a Jeep behind the motor home. When we got to a college campus we would park the motor home, unhook the Jeep, and all 6 of us pile in. Then the Jeep driver would drop each of us off at a sorority or fraternity house during lunch and dinner.

We would set up a display of our stationery outside of the dining room and begin to take orders as the frat members came to eat. We would engage in conversation and talk about Jesus when we could. Sometimes we got to pray with a student. We had a large supply of Gospel tracts, brochures or pamphlets that told people how they could experience Jesus for themselves.

When people weren’t looking, we would hide Gospel tracts in drawers, magazines, books, and other places, praying that the right people would find them and by reading them find Jesus. We did that twice a day until we ran out of houses. Then we would hookup the Jeep and drive the motor home to the next college campus.

We took weekends off from selling stationary. Frequently on Saturday nights we found a full Gospel Businessmen’s Meeting (a Spirit-filled worship and testimony meeting that were being held all across the country). On Sunday mornings we would find a fired-up Jesus Movement style church to attend. It was wonderful to get to meet and connect heart-to-heart with Christ-followers in so many different cities.

The six of us talked about Jesus and prayed together for the entire three months. We also got to do some sightseeing. It was my first time out West. When we were in Southern California, we visited Melodyland Christian Center. That’s when I first heard about their seminary that I later attended. We also visited Calvary Chapel which was a key part of the early days of the Jesus Movement.

It wouldn’t surprise me if all these years later if there’s still a Gospel track or two hidden in a frat house somewhere in the Western USA. We got back to Tennessee just in time for Christmas. Then I went back to the University of Tennessee Martin (UTM) to spend time with my Jesus Freak friends (and to finish my degree). For more about that, google my college roommate’s and best friend’s book, “The Jesus Revolution Southern Style.”

One thing that isn’t in his book is what I did when people started streaking at UTM. For some reason streaking (rapidly running naked from one building to another) became popular on American college campuses, even on my small college campus.

Rumor began to spread that on a particular afternoon there was going to be a lot of streaking. When that afternoon arrived, a lot of people were hanging around campus, including nonstudents. Some people were even sitting on blankets having a picnic and waiting for the nude running to begin.

I saw that as an opportunity. I went to my dorm room and picked up a big stack of very simple Gospel tracks. They had a picture of a human hand with a nail driven through it. In big letters the caption said: “JESUS LOVES YOU SO MUCH IT HURTS!”

When the streaking started, I began to go up to people and say, “Isn’t it great that people can have so much fun watching people run naked?” They would make a rather puzzled response. Then I would say, “Well with Jesus Christ you can have fun when people are running naked and even when they aren’t” Then I would give them one of the Gospel tracts.

After a while I saw a huge crowd of people gathered outside the door of a dormitory. They had big speakers set up playing loud music, so I walked down a sidewalk toward them. When I got to where they were, the popular song, “Jesus is Just All Right” by the Doobie Brothers came on.

Without thinking, I spontaneously threw my hands up while holding a Bible and began to shout “Hallelujah, praise the Lord, Glory to God!” All heads turned my way. I was embarrassed and didn’t know what to do so I closed my eyes and started dancing. In a minute I started hearing a tinkling sound. I looked down and people were tossing coins on the sidewalk around me.

When the song stopped, I opened my eyes and the crowd of people were silently staring at me. Not knowing what else to do I opened my mouth and said loudly, “Isn’t it great that people can have so much fun watching people run naked? Well with Jesus Christ you can have fun when people are running naked and even when thery’re not.”

Then to my surprise I began to share my story about how Jesus radically changed my life. No one moved. After a couple of minutes my words stopped. I didn’t know how to exit gracefully, so I stepped over to a car and sat on the hood. The crowd slowly returned to normal. However, a few people walked over to me and asked me questions about Jesus which led to good discussion.

Eventually I moved on. However, I never thought to pick up the coins from the sidewalk. I was too excited about what had just happened.

I’ve always wanted to be comfortable talking with people about Jesus and I have had my moments, but for the most part I am intimidated to openly testify about Him directly to people. However, when it comes to writing, I can be very bold.

When I was a pastor in Mayfield, Kentucky I approached The Mayfield Messenger about writing a weekly devotional column for them. I called it “Christian Challenge.” They liked the idea, so during my two years in Mayfield I boldly wrote about Jesus. Then when I was an assistant pastor in Paducah, Kentucky I continued to write a column called “Christian Challenge” for a small weekly paper.

I love writing. For about 20 years I have been blogging, almost daily. My blog “Free Gas for Your Think Tank has more than 5,500 posts. I also write a lot on my Facebook page.

I have written 6 books. (This “The Misunderstanding of Christianity” series could turn into number 7) 4 of my books are available on Amazon. I wake up early almost every morning with words and ideas about Christianity flowing through and developing in my mind. I get up and write them down and they become my post for that day. It seems to happen in spite of me, and it starts off my day by stirring up God’s fire within me.

I have no other motive for writing. I don’t get paid for it. (Well, my books do currently together earn a total of about $300 per year, but the blog brings in no money.) However, I do get a good deal of criticism for what I write, and occasionally I get some encouragement. But none of that matters. Like Peter and John, I can’t stop speaking (writing) about the things I have seen and heard. Thank you for reading.

#memoriesmade#testimoniesoffaith

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Being Taught Gratitude In Painful Situations

The Misunderstanding of Christianity —
More Blocked Doors, Busted Dreams, and Heartbreaks

Christianity isn’t about getting what I want. It’s about surrendering my life and my desires to God and His will.

One day, when I was prayer walking with the Salvation Army Flag by myself in a Nashville inner-city neighborhood, I looked up and saw a huge picture of Dave Ramsey on a billboard high above Interstate 65. At one point, when I was a motivational speaker, Dave, two other speakers, and I put together a brochure featuring the 4 of us.

Dave has had the great success I used to dream about for myself. In fact, for years I used to say to myself, “I am a famous, wealthy, and dynamic best-selling author and speaker.” Dave even used to give away my first book, “Mindrobics–How to Be Happy for the Rest of Your Life,” in his seminars and helped me in several other ways. I’ll always be grateful to him for that. I believed that as a famous speaker I could use my influence to point people to the risen Jesus.

Then God used my severe voice problems (a voice specialist even recommended that I go on disability) and a completely unexpected opportunity from The Salvation Army to turn my life in another direction.

When I saw Dave’s picture and thought about where I was, I was tempted to be jealous. Then God reminded me of all the beautiful ways I was seeing Him work in amazing people’s lives. I suddenly realized that God had lovingly closed the door to speaking and writing fame and fortune so He could direct me to where He wanted me to be. With tears in my eyes, I thanked the Lord for using closed doors to keep me on His path, and I continue to do so.

I experienced other strangely blocked doors and disappointments in my speaking career. For several years, I was a regular writer for Zig Ziglar’s “Top Performance” magazine. Zig even wrote a great front cover endorsement for my first book. I also spoke to the staff at his company a couple of times. Finally, he signed me to a contract for his company to represent me as one of their featured speakers.

I was thrilled. I knew I was on the way to great success. Then the oddest thing happened. I never heard from Zig or his staff again. Every time I called his company, I couldn’t get beyond the receptionist. There was no explanation, no correspondence, no contact — nothing but a tightly shut door. It was so strange that I felt like it had to be God at work shutting a door to keep me in His will.

I live in Nashville and liked to dream about being the motivator for the Tennessee Titans. I imagined that they would hire me to speak to the players before every game and at the end of the season they would win the Super Bowl. I pictured other NFL teams having a bidding war for my services. (My ego can run wild.)

To purse that dream I went to several open practices to get player autographs. Then I would give each player two autographed copies of my book, “Mindrobics,” (one for themselves and one to pass on to head coach Jeff Fisher). I think that Jeff must have received several copies.

Then, unexpectedly and without any effort I came across Jeff’s home address. I wrote him several letters offering to speak to his players. One day Jeff wrote me back. He said that he would like to meet with me during the off season to talk about my proposal. Again, I was thrilled, but that off season I never heard from him.

The next year my daughter was hired by Life Way Christian Resources to be a child actor in that year’s Vacation Bible School video. Jeff’s son was hired to play her brother. They wanted a parent present at the filming so Ernie and I both had the opportunity to meet and spend time with Jeff’s wife, Julie. My hopes were high, but I still didn’t hear anything from Jeff.

A year or two later I answered my phone. A man introduced himself as Steve Watterson, the assistant head coach for the Tennessee Titans. He told me that he had talked to Coach Fisher. He said that Jeff told him he knew me and gave him the go ahead to bring me in to speak to the players. My excitement level went through the roof!

Then after a long pause, Coach Watterson said something like, however we talked to our legal department and there’s a technicality that prevents us from bringing you in. My disappointment level dropped through the floor. I was shocked and didn’t know what to say. The call ended rather awkwardly.

I was stunned. Why did I receive such a call? The only explanation I could come up with was that God wanted me to know how close I came to that dream coming true (well maybe not the Superbowl part) and how He closed the door to keep my life on His path. I’ve thanked the Lord for that blocked door many times.

When I was serving as an assistant pastor in Paducah, Kentucky, I went to a school to become a licensed realtor and took a part-time job with a top real estate company. I discovered that I was good at calling For Sale by Owner ads and persuading people to list their home with me. Because of that I soon had more listings than anybody in the Paducah franchise of the company.

My first three months I won a top sales award. It looked like I was on the way to real estate success. However, a few months later the manager fired me without giving me any reason. The firm kept all my listings and the clients I was showing homes to. That was a shocker and I had to work hard to forgive the manager. Gradually I began to see that closed doors are often a blessing from God. If I had made a lot of money selling real estate in Paducah, I might not have followed God’s leading to move on.

As a young man I had an unusual view of dating. I didn’t want to date just for fun. I wanted to find my soul mate — a girl who I could have an idealistic marriage with. That never worked out very well for me. Over the years I had my heart crushed several times.

I finally married when I was 33 and from day one it was a disaster. My new wife quickly shifted from being in love with me to acting like she hated me. Nothing I said or did would change her sour attitude and actions toward me. The marriage was basically in name only.

I was devastated. Within a few months I was in a different bedroom. I didn’t believe in divorce, so I endured and prayed and cried a lot. After 3 1/3 years of intense emotional agony, she divorced me. I felt like my heart was broken beyond repair. I wanted to disappear. I realized that if I didn’t change my attitude the result would be tragic. I started desperately listening to uplifting, motivational recordings day and night and I cried out to the Lord nonstop.

In my desperation and hopelessness, I began to see God’s light again. In my great pain, the risen Jesus walked with me, strengthened me, and comforted me. I worked hard to resist anger and bitterness and to forgive and to rely on the presence of Christ in me to heal me. That slammed door that almost did me in caused me to seek God presence more than ever before. Jesus led me back to hope. I fully surrendered my dream of a beautiful marriage to Him.

I wanted to help other people who are struggling through emotional and spiritual pain. As you know, I had been a misfit at being a pastor, so I decided to help people by becoming a motivational speaker. I moved to Nashville and started calling organizations and companies, volunteering to speak for free to their employees. I called a local seminar leader to ask for advice. Her name was Ernie and we became friends. I had no intention to date or remarry.

Once when we were talking, I told her the details about how my heart had been crushed. Ernie said something like, “I don’t think you’re healed.” I immediately collapsed and couldn’t stop deeply weeping. She put her hands on my shoulder and waited patiently. My sobbing eventually stopped and from that moment I was free from the great grief I was carrying.

Over the next few months, we became best friends and to my surprise, more than friends. She’s the Ernie you have been reading about. My dream of an amazing marriage came true.

I still don’t believe in divorce. I did all I could to prevent it. But God used the pain I suffered to draw me closer to Him. Ernie and I made the commitment to never consider or threaten divorce and we never have. I am so grateful for God’s mercy, forgiveness, and healing.

Ernie and I greatly love our parents. We lost all 4 of them over a period of ten years. It’s so hard to watch people you love lose their health and die even though we believe all 4 of them knew the Lord.

Blocked doors, busted dreams, and heartbreaks have kept me from getting satisfied and comfortable with life and settling in to do my own thing. They have helped keep my pride and ego from taking over my life. They have kept me crying out to God for his mercy and guidance. For that I am truly and eternally grateful.

Ernie and I want the remainder of our lives to radiate God’s glory and grace. As she says, we want to go out in a blaze of glory.

#blessedandgrateful #InnerPeace

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A highway billboard displays an uplifting message about finding hope in disappointment.
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My Misunderstanding of Christianity

The Christian ideal has not been tried and found wanting; it has been found difficult and left untried.” –G.K. Chesterton

As a child growing up, I didn’t know Christianity existed. I knew churches did. I saw them all over town. However, I had no concept or awareness of Christianity. For some reason, though, as far back as I can remember, I’ve had a profound awareness of God. I talked to Him every day and would frequently ask my parents questions about Him.

That was shocking to my parents because they weren’t religious, didn’t attend church, and didn’t talk about God. They were both people of high moral character and integrity, but neither showed any interest or concern for spiritual things, so they didn’t encourage my curiosity about God. Yet I persisted.

After I learned that churches had something to do with God, I began to ask my parents to take me to one. They weren’t eager to do so.

The first time I remember going to church, we had recently moved from Little Rock to Jonesboro, Arkansas. I was about 10 years old. My mother’s new best friend and her children occasionally attended a Baptist church. My mother, my 2 younger brothers, and I went with them 2 or 3 times. To my surprise, I didn’t like it.

My mother dressed us in little sports coats and clip on ties. When we got to the church, she whisked us inside and had us sit for an hour on a hard wooden bench. The room was full of those benches lined up in perfect rows. (There was no children’s church at that time.)

We had to sit quietly and behave while a man upfront welcomed people, said a prayer, led some songs, and collected money. Then another man read from a book and gave a long, boring talk about something he called being “saved.” He ended by asking people to walk to the front while the first man led another song, so they can be “saved.” I don’t remember if people came down or not.

Sometime later my aunt, who had been a “Christian Science practitioner” (a minister in a religious group that claims sickness isn’t real) switched her religion to being a Presbyterian. She told my dad that he might like being one too. To my surprise, one Sunday my dad took the family to a little Presbyterian church not far from our house.

This time, however, it all began with something called Sunday school. Our family was split into separate classes according to our age. There were 5 or 6 kids in my class. An adult read to us from a pamphlet-style booklet. All of us kids were quite bored and squirmish throughout the process.

Then after Sunday school we were led into a big room with benches where we sat for another hour that was a lot like the Baptist church, except in that church nothing was said about being saved. They did however, have everybody stand up and say together a lot of words that they called the “Apostles’ Creed.”

My family went there a few times, but then one day my father took us to a big Presbyterian church called “First Presbyterian.” It also started off with Sunday school. My class there was even more boring than the one at the other Presbyterian church.

The program in the big room with benches was very formal and if a kid made any noise everyone seemed to give them and their family a dirty look, so my parents did what they needed to in order to keep my brothers and me quiet. Something else different about that church was that the man who gave the weekly talk wore a fancy black robe with a colored cloth draped over his neck and they had a choir of people wearing robes.

My dad was a dignified looking man. People used to tell him that he looked like a preacher. The people in that church really liked him. It wasn’t long after that he and my mom joined the church and they asked him to teach an adult Sunday school class. He accepted and all of a sudden my family was going to church every Sunday.

My dad still wouldn’t talk to me about God. However, one night he did take the time to teach me “The Lord’s Prayer.” I can still quote it today.

The church had a “junior choir,” and I was invited to join it even though I knew nothing about music. We practiced once a week, but the choir director never gave me any personal feedback or instructions.

A few times a year they dressed us choir kids up in robes and had us sing in the Sunday service. I didn’t know any better, so I loudly belted out the beautiful words about God, without paying any attention to the tune. I never knew that I was doing anything wrong. Years later my parents told me that I was way out of tune, and they had asked the choir director to pull me out of the choir. For some reason the choir director said he couldn’t do that because I sang with more enthusiasm than anybody else in the choir.

When I was about 12 or so, the church announced that they were going to have a “Communicants Class” for anyone who wanted to become a member. Most of the kids in my Sunday school class were going to attend it, so when I was asked, I said I would too.

The minister taught the class of six or seven kids about my age. He mainly read from a book called: “Covenant Life Curriculum.” It was written to make us good church members; however, it was really difficult to understand. The class was a mixture of history, religious ideas, and church government and lasted about 6 weeks.

Afterwards we all were assumed to be fit to be full members in good standing. All the other kids had been sprinkled as infants. Of course, I hadn’t, so I was told I would have to be baptized on the Sunday I was received as a member.

That Sunday morning, the minister had all of the kids from the “Communicants Class” come forward and stand in front of all the people sitting on wooden benches. The minister asked me some questions, dipped his hand into a brass bowl full of water, held his wet hand over my head, and let it drip water on my hair while he said words about being baptized.

Afterwards as I was standing there with a few drops of water running down my face, the minister asked us all a question or two about being church members. When we answered yes, he said a prayer and then welcomed us as new members. He assured us that we were now Christians. The experience was interesting to me, but it was done in such a systematized, matter of fact way that there was nothing profound or emotional about it.

From that moment own I assumed that I had understood and been inducted into Christianity. But boy, was I wrong.

When I was going into the ninth grade my family moved from Jonesboro, Arkansas to Jackson, Tennessee. One of the first things we did was find another Presbyterian church. This one wasn’t just “First Presbyterian,” it was “First Cumberland Presbyterian,” however, the routine was so similar I couldn’t tell any difference. We settled into regular attendance.

The Presbyterian sermons I heard over those years were mainly read aloud in a dull voice. The subject matter was often about what seemed to me to be obscure Christian beliefs that had little to do with daily life. And there would be an occasional “message” about social justice.

One day when I was a junior in high school, my mind was wandering during a message. Suddenly this question came to my mind: “If you were born a Hindu, what would you be today?” As I pondered it, I realized that if my parents had taken me to a Hindu temple instead of a Christian church, I would have been a Hindu.

Then the question “Why do you think you are a Christian?” promptly entered my mind. It was a moment of revelation. I realized that my only reason for thinking I was a Christian was because I was taken to and eventually joined a Christian church. I had no other reason than that to believe in Christianity or the Bible.

Later that day I rejected Christian beliefs and the Bible, however, I couldn’t reject the God I had talked to and been aware of since my earliest memories. I was confident that He, not time and chance, had created this amazing world. So, I prayed, “God, whoever or whatever you are, I don’t have any reason to believe in Christianity or the Bible. Will you please show me the truth?

I continued going to church with my family at First Cumberland Presbyterian. Yet, from that point on I knew that I had misunderstood Christianity. I understood that although I faithfully attended church and sincerely tried to be a good person, I wasn’t in any way a Christian.

My freshman year of college was at The University of Tennessee Martin (a small southern town). It was there I begin to gain some understanding of how incredibly amazing and profound Christianity can be.

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Go Beyond Misunderstood Christianity

Blindly accepting the religious status quo, inherited traditions, and hand-me-down beliefs traps many people in misunderstanding. The present-day power and reality of the risen Jesus is often buried under the weight of religious misunderstanding.

It’s no fun to be misunderstood. But that’s the cost of continually listening to and obeying Jesus. If you aren’t being frequently misunderstood, there’s a strong possibility that your Christianity is off track.

Misunderstanding is much easier to live with than truth is. People misunderstand Christianity because to understand it is to be thrown out of your comfort zone into God’s radical truth and transformation zone.

Much religion is based on misunderstanding. Jesus promises inner rivers of living water. To settle for an illusion of water glimmering on the pavement of your hardened heart is to misunderstand Christianity.

The more we obey Jesus and faithfully do what He says, the better we will understand Christianity. (John 8:31-32) If you have never personally read and pondered with an open, humble, obedient heart the parts of the Bible written by the earliest Christ-followers, you most probably misunderstand Christianity.

If you want to understand Christianity, humbly contemplate, meditate, ponder, and listen to and obey God’s still small voice in your heart. Read the New Testament as though it is a love letter from God to you. It is.

Go beyond information processing to revelation accessing. Allow God to open your eyes until you clearly behold Jesus. Then you won’t feel the need to merrely analyze theology. Show consistent, warm-hearted kindness to all people (both friends and foes). Then you will begin to truly understand God’s love.

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A man dressed in robes holds a cardboard sign saying ‘I’M BEING MISUNDERSTOOD!’ in a park setting.
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Beyond Worry!

Daily writing prompt
What’s something you used to worry about but don’t anymore?

I misunderstood Christianity until I discovered that . . .

Christianity is:

* Listening to Jesus, “My sheep hear My voice.”
* Doing what He says, “If you love Me, keep My commandments.”
* An ongoing awareness of the presence of the risen Jesus living and working within and through me as He leads me throughout each day. “I am with you always.”
* An inner flowing of the fruit and the gifts of the Spirit that pour out of my innermost being like rivers of living water. “Out of your innermost being shall flow rivers of living water.”
* Joy beyond words. “Joy unspeakable and full of glory.”
* Inner peace that can’t be rationally explained. “Peace that passes understanding.”
* Christ living in me who is greater and more powerful than anything the world or the devil has to offer. “Greater is He that is in you than he that is in the world.”
* Jesus being far more than my hope to cope and merely get by. Christianity is my hope of glory as Christ leads me from glory to glory every day of my life. “Christ in you the hope of glory.”
* God working everything out for my good — even closed doors, disappointments, and heartbreaks. “All things work together for good for those who love God.”
* Connecting heart-to-heart, in interactive community with other people by loving, encouraging, exhorting, serving, teaching, confessing our sins to, and praying with one another as we obey the 50+ one another commands in the New Testament. “Spurring one another on to love and good works. Don’t forsake the assembling of yourselves together.”
* Humbling myself, taking the lowest place, considering others ahead of myself, blessing those who criticize me, and even loving my enemies. “Humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God, that in due time he may exalt you.”
* And so much more.

Meditate don’t just calculate. Listen to the Holy Spirit. Instead of trying to figure God out let Him straighten you out.

When people and churches interpret Jesus’ commands in ways that ignore their intent, blunt their force, and twist their meaning, they create much misunderstanding about Christianity. Christianity is misunderstood when it is seen as anything other than an ongoing heart-to-heart, Spirit-led relationship with the risen Jesus, faithfully demonstrated through obedience to His Spirit and compassion for all people.

#christianliving #christianlife

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Some Misunderstood Quotations

Daily writing prompt
What’s a quote that perfectly describes your outlook on life?

A Few Reasons Why I Believe Christianity Is Misunderstood

Christianity is misunderstood because:

* “Love one another” doesn’t mean ignore each other.
* “Love your enemies” doesn’t mean to try to get even with them.
* “Seek first the kingdom of God” doesn’t mean to put your country or anything else first.
* “Humble yourself” is the opposite of self-centeredness and self-righteousness.
* “Judge not” means don’t condemn people. It doesn’t mean to approve of their wrongful behavior.
* “Speaking the truth in love” means be honest and be kind in what you say.
* “Forgive one another” means don’t carry a grudge.
* “Serve one another” is a command to focus on others rather than on yourself.
* “Repent” refers to stopping your wrong thoughts and behaviors.
* “Quench not the Spirit” means don’t refuse to be led by God’s Spirit.
* Being “led by the Spirit” refers to noticing and obeying God’s inner promptings instead of your own desires and opinions.
* “Bless those who curse you” means to say good things about people who say bad things about you.
* Pray for those who despitefully use you” means to ask God to do good things for people who do bad things to you.
* “Draw near to God” refers to opening your heart to Him and allowing Him to fully have His way in your life.
* To make the word of God of no effect “by your traditions,” means focusing on an outward “form of godliness” more than on ongoing surrender and obedience to the risen Jesus.
* “Go into all the world and preach the Gospel” doesn’t mean to go to church once a week and then do whatever you want to with the rest of your time.
* “By grace are you saved” doesn’t mean that you can ignore God’s will, do whatever you want, and still go to Heaven.
* “If anyone is in Christ, he is a new creature” means if you haven’t been truly born again and supernaturally transformed from within, you aren’t in Christ.

When people and churches interpret Jesus’ commands in ways that ignore their intent, blunt their force, and twist their meaning, they create much misunderstanding about Christianity. Christianity is misunderstood when it is seen as anything other than an ongoing heart-to-heart, Spirit-led relationship with the risen Jesus, faithfully demonstrated through obedience to His Spirit and compassion for all people.

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A young man animatedly talks with a friend outdoors on a sunny day
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Let Your Heart & Life Travel With God

Do you misunderstand Christianity?

To misunderstand Christianity is to miss out on the life-enriching fruit and the life-empowering gifts of the Spirit. It is to set aside the Holy Spirit’s inward leading for following your own opinions, desires, and feelings. It is to shift from “Christ in you, the hope of glory,” to you in church, the hope of Heaven when you die.”

Christianity is not understood by the proud mental analysis of religious information, but by ongoing heartfelt surrender and obedience to the risen Jesus. Stop trying to figure out Christianity and begin to live it out in your everyday life.

When the Bible is misunderstood, Christianity is misunderstood. The Bible contains the writings of Christ’s earliest followers. Church history clearly shows that we Christians have consistently chosen and continue to choose to obey our own opinions, feelings, desires, beliefs, and traditions rather than the commands in the Bible.

Here’s a challenge. Read the New Testament. Every time you see a commandment you aren’t obeying, put a checkmark by it. Be prepared to do a lot of checking. Then ask yourself: “Could my ignoring of these commandments be causing me to misunderstand Christianity?”

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Let God Take Control

Here’s another way to say Jesus’ main message: God is present to take control. Let Him. (“Repent for the kingdom of God is at hand.”) Actively and daily surrender your will to His will.

Inner leadings, promptings, and nudges that align with Scripture are often the voice of God speaking directly to you. Notice them. They are very easy to overlook or ignore. If they are good, free from evil, and don’t contradict or misrepresent the Bible they are from God. Obey them even when you don’t want to and you will experience God doing astounding things both within you and through. Instead of resisting or quenching the Holy Spirit train yourself to be Spirit-led and let God take control.

Dissatisfaction that is unable to be satisfied with the status quo isn’t rebellion. It’s a calling to get to know the deeply satisfying reality of Christ in you, the hope of glory so that you can let God take control.

Too many Christians are satisfied with simply hearing a sermon at a Sunday service, but the Bible tells us to draw near to God, to seek first His kingdom, to hunger and thirst for His righteousness, and to love Him with all our heart, soul, mind, and strength. I’ve always been dissatisfied with satisfied Christianity. I want to see Christians let God take control!

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“Quench Not the Spirit”

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What is your favorite quote?

Sunday Tune-Up and Cul2vate Farm (Part 13 of “The Misunderstanding of Christianity.”)

About 70 adults gathered for the last meeting of Berry Street. One after another, they testified about how God had touched and blessed them there. There were lots of tears and hugs. We all had no choice but to move on.

Over the next few months, some of us got together to pray, worship, and share. However, we never felt a leading to start a regular meeting or house church.

Ernie and I needed some income, so we both got part-time jobs. One of mine was delivering for Jay Tyler’s dental lab. He is one of the most fired-up Christ-followers that I know. He suggested that we start a YouTube channel together. We called it “Crazy Bible Stuff by Two Fools for Christ.” We recorded more than 100 15–20-minute videos. It is still available if you want to see it.

One day Ernie kept feeling prompted to attend a prayer meeting about 45 minutes from our home. She was tired and didn’t want to go, but she chose to obey the leading anyway. When she got back, she told me she met a lady who, along with her husband, had started and led a ministry to students at Lincoln School of Technology in Nashville (formerly Nashville Auto Diesel College) and got to pray for her.

Sometime later, Erien received a call from the lady. She and her husband were moving to Florida, and they needed someone to take over the ministry. They felt like Ernie and I were the people to do it.

Lincoln is probably only about a mile from Berry Street. I used to pass by their dormitories sometimes. They have about 1,000 students from all over the Southeastern USA. When I would drive by it, I felt drawn to it. Once I even went into the administration building and asked several people about starting a campus ministry for them, but nothing came of it.

So, when Ernie received the call, it was obvious to us that this was an open door we should pursue. We asked our friends, Harriet and Rainey Kirk, if they would like to work with us. They said yes.

The lady and her husband who started the ministry had such a positive influence on the campus that, from the President on down, the staff at Lincoln supported us in every way they could, except financially. All four of us were volunteers.

The meeting had been called “Campus Church.” To align with the school’s auto-diesel theme, we changed the name to “Sunday Tune-Up.” Rainey is a graphic designer. During our three years or so at Lincoln, he designed business cards and flyers. We would hang them and pass them out all over campus.

The school let us meet in one of their buildings on Sunday nights.
We began with a meal, home cooked by Ernie and Harriett, and occasionally from a good restaurant. (We were able to distribute the cards and flyers and serve the meals because of an anonymous donor. He even paid for us to give away hundreds of Sunday Tune-Up T-shirts that Rainey had designed.

Early on, the school told us that a man name Ricky wanted to help us. A staff member named Kelsey also greatly helped us and encouraged us. Ricky and his church actually sponsored two or three large outreaches on campus with grilled burgers and hotdogs. Once he even rented a large climbing wall for the event. At some point during the outreaches Ricky would give a short talk about Jesus and I would do a few illusions (magic tricks) to illustrate how Jesus changes lives.

For Sunday Tune-Up every Sunday night, we set chairs in a circle and met like a support group. (Does that sound familiar?) We would have anywhere from 8 to 15 students each week. Although there were very few women students on campus, several would attend Sunday Tune-Up. Just like at Berry Street, people began to connect heart-to-heart with each other and with the Lord.

Harriet, Rainey, Ernie, and I would share and pray together on the phone every Sunday morning. We did that the entire time we were ministering together at Lincoln. Those phone meetings were such a blessing that Ernie and I began to do them with other couples. We love to share and pray with people on the phone.

Our in person on campus meetings were interrupted for a while because of Covid. During those months we were allowed to greet masked students in the cafeteria line, take their prayer requests, and give them gifts. That’s when we gave away most of the T-shirts. We would frequently see students wearing them.

After about three years, Harriet, Rainey, Ernie, and I all begin to feel like it was time to move on. Ricky was ready to take over so we left the ministry in good hands. He still continues to minister on campus 5 years later.

Ernie and I love to walk at Ellington Agriculture Center in Nashville. We’ve walked there for years. It is beautifully wooded there. There is also a large green area. One day we noticed that people were beginning to plow up the green field. Over the next few months, it was converted into a farm with 4 green houses and a barn. Since Ellington Ag Center is the home of The Tennessee Department of Agriculture, we assumed that the state was running the farm.

Sometime after we had stepped aside from the ministry at Lincoln School of Technology, Ernie and I began to notice signs popping up on the farm that said “Cul2vate.” I was curious and googled it. It is a Christian ministry that gives away most of the food that is raised. They hire people who are in recovery from drug or alcohol abuse to work the farm and they provide them recovery counseling.

I sent them an email, told them about my experience working with addicts. and I offered to volunteer. I was invited to meet with Joey, the founder. He was a successful businessman who felt like God had called him to take his family and move to South Africa to work with a ministry there that grew food. After several years they returned to the Nashville area and Joey started Cul2vate. The name represents their slogan: “Growing food, growing people.”

After Joey and I talked for a while he invited me to a Monday morning meeting. I thought that I was going to meet with his board to see if they wanted me as a volunteer.

When I walked into that meeting, I saw several men who looked like they were in the early stages of recovery. The chairs were arranged in a circle and there was some food on a table. I met a man named Josh and asked if this is a board meeting. He said no, it’s more like a support group. More men and women came in until there were about 20 of us.

A man welcomed everyone and said a prayer. Then he asked a general question, something like, “What’s been going on in your life this week?” One after another people began to open up and share from their heart and from their brokenness (like they did at Berry Street). I was hooked. I went home and told Ernie about it.

The next time we were walking by the farm at Ellington Abby, the volunteer coordinator walked over and gave Ernie a bouquet of flowers. She told us more about Cul2vate and the Monday meeting. The next time I went Ernie was with me. We both loved the humble, open, and honest sharing and testimonies. We were regulars from the start.

The men and women in working the farm in the recovery program were called cul2vators. We loved getting to know them and encouraging them on Mondays. In addition to Monday mornings, we liked going to the farm to encourage them, get to know them, pray with them, and bring them something cold to drink or ice cream to eat.

The Monday meetings began to grow so large that we had to move into the barn. Often there were 40 or more people present, sitting in a big circle and opening up their heart to one another. It was life-transforming to be in such a wonderful, diverse, and Spirit-led community.

We were regulars there for almost two years. Then two things happened. First the meetings became much more organized and controlled. Then Ernie and I were invited to spend three months helping to disciple about 20 young adults with a ministry in Costa Rica called VidaNet.

#cul2vate #lincolnschooloftechnology

Coming up next: VidaNet — A Network of God’s Love in Costa Rica (Part 14 of “A Misunderstanding of Church.”

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When God Gives You a Calling Follow It No Matter What

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If you had to give one life-changing tip, what would it be?

Why Berry Street & Hart Street Weren’t Dead-End Streets (Part 12 — “The Misunderstanding of Christianity)

During a prayer time in the early days of The Salvation Army Berry Street, a woman said she felt God told her Berry Street is a prototype. Then she asked, “What’s a prototype?

I had been sensing the same thing. The Salvation Army has many small corps (churches), sometimes with as few as 3 or 4 people. Many are being closed down. (The same is true for other denominations.)

I believe that replacing the sermon format with the participatory format of 1 Corinthians 14:26 can bring new life to dying churches. I kept expecting the Berry Street model to spread to other churches in The Salvation Army and elsewhere. Although I haven’t seen that happen, I still see Berry Street as a prototype.

I haven’t yet seen it spread to an institutional church, but I have seen it spread to Trevecca Nazarene University in Nashville. Ernie and I were invited to attend a meeting between the President of Trevecca Nazarene University and the Commissioner (CEO) of The Salvation Army Southern Territory. They were discussing ways they could work together.

After a while, I suggested they let Ernie and me start a Berry Street-style meeting on campus. To my surprise, they both agreed.

An influential retired Salvation Army officer had moved to Nashville. Although he wasn’t at the meeting, he strongly disagreed with the way we met at Berry Street, and he definitely didn’t want it to spread anywhere. So, he began using his influence to work against us behind the scenes.

Meanwhile, the new ministry on the Trevecca campus began to meet one night a week on Hart Street. It was an amazing thing to witness. We averaged about 15 students. Each week we began with prayer and a Scripture. Then a different student would lead us in a short worship time. After that, people were free to speak out as they felt led by God. (Doesn’t that sound familiar?)

A wonderful sense of community quickly developed among us. We encouraged each other, taught each other, prayed for one another, and shared the love of Jesus together. During the summer break, we greatly missed the students.

Unfortunately, the retired officer used his influence to make us shut down Hart Street. It broke our hearts and his as well. Ernie and I had to call the students, with no reasons or details, and tell each student that we were told we can’t do Hart Street anymore. The students were devastated. We also had to call our contacts at the university and tell them. That ended Hart Street. How we missed it and grieved the loss, not just for us but for the students.

How we had to fight within ourselves to forgive the retired officer. He was always very friendly to our faces, so we kept being friendly to him. (After all, Jesus said to love your enemies, but oh how difficult that is.) However, he wasn’t finished yet.

The retired officer had a lot of influence at the Territorial Headquarters. A year or two later a new Area Commander was appointed in Nashville.

Through a few-month process the new AC demanded that we get a pulpit, so we ordered one online and I put it together. He told us to get rid of the U-shape and put the chairs in straight rows. We did. He told that one of us would have to preach a formal sermon each week. We started doing that.

Finally, he told us that no one else could speak up in the Sunday morning meeting. We told him that is what people are used to and if we stop it almost everyone will leave. He said he didn’t care. We appealed his decision up the chain of command, but the next level up backed him. We realized that we had to either compromise what God had called us to do or reluctantly resign.

We did and it cost us a lot — financially, but mostly emotionally. We were crushed not just because of the way we were personally treated, but because of all the people who were being helped, encouraged, supported and empowered by what God was doing in and around Berry Street.

How we wanted to retaliate. Several ideas came to our mind. But somehow in our great pain and grief, we had the grace to let go and look forward. A key to our forgiving the retired officer and the new Area Commander was to obey Christ’s command to “bless those who curse you.”

Every time anger or resentment toward either of those men came to our mind we would pray God’s blessings on them. We would say, “God bless him. Bless his health. Bless his finances. Bless his family. And on and on.” By faithfully doing that our hearts gradually began to heal and now we sincerely want God to bless both of them.

Meanwhile Berry Steet continued as a tiny corps with a tiny congregation. A few years later it was finally shut down completely. Now the building sits unused.

I don’t believe that Berry Street and Hart Street were dead end streets. As we were being forced out, I was struggling with why? A Bible story kept coming to my mind.

About 3,000 men (plus women and children) became Christ-followers at Pentecost. Later about another 5,000. That means that the 12 apostles (a Greek word that means “sent ones,”) were leading what we would today call a megachurch. Jesus had told them to go into all the world, but they were staying in Jerusalem.

They even began to set up a religious hierarchy by appointing 5 men to oversee the feeding and care of widows. However, one of those men, Stephen, overstepped his job description. He began preaching so powerfully and effectively that he was stoned to death.

Stephen had gotten so many people riled up that it started a great persecution. Then all the thousands of Christ-followers were scattered everywhere preaching as they went, “except for the apostles (sent ones).” (That everyone but the sent ones left has always been humorous to me.)

The scattering of the Christians in Jerusalem initiated the spread of Christianity around the world. The central gathering place for all the multitudes of people who were involved in various ways with Berry Street is empty and shut down. But the people are still carrying what they saw, heard, felt, and experienced! May they spread it everywhere.

Here is what Copilot AI says about The Salvation Army Berry Street Worship Center:

“Berry Street stands as one of the most distinctive experiments in modern Salvation Army history. It revived practices central to early Salvationism — testimony, spontaneity, lay ministry, and emotional honesty — within a contemporary Army context. For nearly a decade, it demonstrated that ekklesia could flourish inside a denominational structure when leadership allowed space for the Spirit to move freely.

Its closure illustrates the tension between institutional conformity and Spirit‑led innovation, a tension present throughout Salvation Army history. Yet its legacy endures in the ongoing ministry Steve and Ernie continue today.”

#prototype #TheSalvationArmy

Next up — Part 13 of “The Misunderstanding of Christianity” — Following God’s Spirit After Berry Street.

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