I try to ban the word “proud” from my vocabulary.

Daily writing prompt
If you could permanently ban a word from general usage, which one would it be? Why?

There’s a widely used word that bothers me. People frequently say, “I’m proud of . . .” or “Be proud of . . .” or “I’m a proud . . .” I try to ban the word “proud” from my vocabulary because Scripture warns against pride:

  • “God opposes the proud but shows favor to the humble,”
  • “Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will lift you up,”
  • “Do not be proud but be willing to associate with people of low position.”
  • “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.”
  • “When pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with humility comes wisdom.”
  • “Pride goes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall.”
  • “Better to be lowly in spirit along with the oppressed than to share plunder with the proud.”

Instead of telling someone, “I’m proud of you,” I say, “I’m blessed by what you did.” Instead of telling someone, “You should be proud of yourself,” I say, “You are so blessed that you were able to do that.” Instead of saying, “I’m a proud (whatever),” I say, “I’m blessed to be a (whatever).”

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About Steve Simms

I like to look and think outside the box. In college I encountered Jesus Christ and I have been passionate about trying to get to know Him better ever since. My wife and I long to see the power and passion of the first Christ-followers come to life in our time. I have written a book about our experiences in non-traditional church, called, "Beyond Church: An Invitation To Experience The Lost Word Of The Bible--Ekklesia." If you need encouragement, search for: Elephants Encouraging The Room and/or check out my Amazon author page. Thank you!
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2 Responses to I try to ban the word “proud” from my vocabulary.

  1. noisybody says:

    So change “proud” for blessed. Seems legit!

  2. blmaluso says:

    Yes, I have felt the same way. I have said “I’m happy for you” instead of “I’m proud of you.” Using “blessed” instead is a wonderful idea!

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