Self-Absorption Soaks Up Distortion

Self-absorption
Is disproportion.
It’s a distortion
And a contortion
Of reality.

Self-absorption is a house of hazy smoke and twisted mirrors that drastically distorts reality through the lenses of human pride. It hardens your heart, shuts down your mind, and fills your mouth with arrogance.

To be self-absorbed is to be trapped with the one person who can do you the most harm. Self-absorption is like a sponge. It quickly soaks up the dirty dishwater of self-obsessed desires.

Consumerism cultivates and captivates people in the chaotic cravings of self-absorption. Then they try to buy their way into happiness.

People with a self-absorbed swag often try to gag other people and intimidate them into silence. We humans like to compare ourselves to others, but our pride won’t let us do it fairly. We’re usually far too self-absorbed to take the time to compassionately find out what’s really going on in the heart and mind of other people.

If your opinions matter, then other people’s opinions also matter. Listen, kindly discuss, and try to persuade, but refuse to let your self-absorption cause you to be rude to people who disagree with you.

Let the risen Jesus gently squeeze the self-absorption out of you. Then He can fill you with His presence and reality.

When church is seen as a business, leaders are chosen based on their influence, human abilities, social status, or financial situation rather than on their character, brokenness, and humility before God. Does going to church keep you excited about, obedient to, and absorbed with the living Jesus all week long? If not, perhaps something is missing.

Be reliant
On Jesus
And compliant
With His will.
Know the thrill
Of seeing
That He’s real!

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About Steve Simms

I like to look and think outside the box. In college I encountered Jesus Christ and I have been passionate about trying to get to know Him better ever since. My wife and I long to see the power and passion of the first Christ-followers come to life in our time. I have written a book about our experiences in non-traditional church, called, "Beyond Church: An Invitation To Experience The Lost Word Of The Bible--Ekklesia." If you need encouragement, search for: Elephants Encouraging The Room and/or check out my Amazon author page. Thank you!
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2 Responses to Self-Absorption Soaks Up Distortion

  1. hlmiller2014's avatar hlmiller2014 says:

    Thank you for sharing this. I especially liked your comparison of self-absorption to a sponge, and how Jesus can gently squeeze it out of us. I’ve never thought of it that way before.

  2. Jon's avatar Jon says:

    “To be self-absorbed is to be trapped with the one person who can do you the most harm.” Profound, that.

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