My biggest challenge has always been escaping from self-focus. My thoughts, feelings, and desires continually clamor for my attention. However, one day the person who was the focus of the most shocking week in human history shocked me by stepping in to grab my focus. Although myself still clamors for my attention, the presence and glory of the God-man keeps drawing my attention and awareness to Him.
The God-man (John 1:1 & 14) was cheered like a king as He rode into Jerusalem on the back of a donkey. A few days later He was crucified because the religious leaders didn’t like the things He said and did. Then to end the week and begin a new one, He rose from the dead to live forevermore.
Before He was taken to be condemned to death and crucified, Jesus prayed this shocking prayer: “Now My soul is troubled, and what shall I say? ‘Father, save Me from this hour’? No, it was for this very reason I came to this hour. Father, glorify Your name!”
About 1,920 years later, the God-man shocked me by riding into my heart and capturing me with the dazzling beauty of His presence and love. Ever since then He has been leading me and empowering me to take up my cross, to deny my own thoughts, feelings, and desires, and to follow and obey Him instead. I am continually in awe at the glorious journey Jesus has me on as I seek to surrender my all to Him as my Lord, King, and Master, day by day.
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Steve, self-focus is wired into us—it’s like the factory setting of being human. It’s the reason we survive, plan, and even avoid eating that suspiciously old yogurt in the fridge. Without some level of self-interest, we wouldn’t make it very far.
The real debate is whether self-focus becomes a problem when it traps us in a loop of me, me, me without leaving space for we. But honestly, why should we feel bad about it if it’s not hurting anyone? Wanting to improve your life, care for yourself, or chase your dreams isn’t selfish—it’s just being human.
The tricky part is that too much self-focus can sometimes backfire. Ever notice how overthinking your own happiness can actually make you less happy? It’s like trying to grab water with your bare hands—the tighter you squeeze, the more it slips away. Sometimes, shifting focus outward—whether toward people, purpose, or something bigger—actually gives life more depth.
So, I’d say this: self-focus isn’t the villain. It’s more like salt in a recipe—too little, and life feels bland; too much, and everything tastes off. It’s about balance. Care for yourself, chase your dreams, but leave some room for the bigger picture. After all, life isn’t just about being the star—it’s about being part of the whole show.
Well said, balanced comment. Thank you, K.K.
Great 😊
July of 1974, I came to understand, it ain’t about Jim. it’s all about Him.
Very well said, Jim!