Life is problematic when we try to keep the Holy Spirit under our control. We need to be under His control. Christ didn’t come to give us another religion, but to offer us continual access to God. Now we can experience God 24/7/365.
When religion defines spontaneity as chaos, people are afraid to follow the inner leadings of the Holy Spirit. Christ-followers are called to follow the promptings of the Holy Spirit, not the provocations of frustration, anger, or fear.
To hit a target you need to aim at it. Aim your life at daily following and fully obeying the living Jesus Christ. Search the internet for: The Joy Of Early Christianity.