I first wrote this blog for the ONE Body Life Blog at this link.
If you have ever wanted to attend a house fellowship, but couldn’t find one, why not start one yourself? It’s easy. Any believer can do it if they follow these simple steps.
1) Pray and surrender: Give up your expectations and turn it over to Jesus. Let it be His meeting, not yours. That takes a lot of pressure off. (No need to worry about numbers or agendas.) You don’t have to lead it. Just create an open, loving atmosphere and watch what the risen Jesus can do in your home.
2) Invite a few friends over to your house. You don’t need a big crowd. Jesus promised to be with us, even in “groups” of two or three. So don’t try to get dozens of people over. Start small with twelve or less.
3) If you want to, have food. However, for me, if I’m hosting, organizing food can be a distraction and make it hard to focus on hearing the Spirit. So food is fine, if you want to have it, but it isn’t a requirement. If you do have food, it is good to serve it either before or after the meeting time and not during the meeting.
4) Be prayed up and in the Spirit. Then warmly welcome everyone who comes and create a loving atmosphere as people arrive.
5) When you’re ready, pull everyone together. I’ve found that it is helpful to begin with someone leading heart-felt worship songs. (I ask them to be the “lead worshiper” and not the worship leader.) Let the worship go as long as the Spirit is moving and working.
6) As worship tapers off, tell the group that this is an open meeting and that anyone can share as they feel prompted by the Holy Spirit. Encourage them to consider others and to make their sharing short so that others will have time to share. Then say a prayer with the group and watch what the risen Jesus does next.
7) In most cases the Holy Spirit will run the meeting all by Himself. As the host all you have to do is to be what the New Testament calls an “overseer.” (Other mature believers who are present may also help oversee the meeting.) An overseer is like an official in basket ball. She or he, just stays out of the way and observes what is going.
Should anything be said or done that is off base or unbiblical, an overseer kindly interrupts the person and says something like, “Thank you for sharing. Who else has something from the Spirit?” If something biblically way off base is shared, an overseer can take 30 seconds to gently correct it and then turn the meeting back over to Jesus. Also it is good to not let the meeting turn into a counseling session where everybody begins to instruct one person. Sometimes it is good to kindly remind people not to share unless they know the Holy Spirit is telling them to do so.
Note by Henry Hon: I would recommend not openly correcting anyone as an authority figure. It is much more profitable to have personal fellowship in private if correction is needed. If an authoritative correction is done openly, it could well discourage others from speaking up since they would be afraid to say anything wrong. If no one is dominating the fellowship time, then even if something is spoken that is unscriptural, it will be covered over by others speaking concerning Jesus. So, in my experience, the typical “referee” job is just to make sure no one dominates and everyone has opportunity and time to share what is in them.
8) Let Jesus, Himself, end the meeting. People will know when the meeting is winding down and it is time to go.
So what can you expect from this 8-step process? Every meeting will be different. Ordinary people will say and do things that amaze you. Some will even read from Scripture and give short teachings. You will see the Holy Spirit coordinate the various things that are shared into one. You will continually feel His presence. People will open their hearts to the group. They will compassionately pray over one another. The gifts of the Spirit (listed in 1 Corinthians 12) will begin to happen right in front of you. Love will fill the room. Some tender tears will probably flow. People will be built up and encouraged.
So what are you waiting for? Try this in your home and see what God does. This is not a formula for you to follow, but a simple way for you to create an atmosphere where the risen Jesus can take control.
If you need personal coaching or have questions, contact me at stsimms@live.com
I can’t wait to hear how God works in your home!






Unconventional thoughts about Palm Sunday, Holy Week, & Easter
Jesus didn’t sit in an office and study all week so He could preach a good sermon. He got out among people and served them. Bob Goff, author of the books, Love Does and Everybody Always, puts it this way: “When Jesus rose from the dead He didn’t make a speech, He made His friends breakfast.”
Through out history, Christians have gathered in informal, unorganized groups to encourage and minister to one another. However, when human leadership and organization begin to override the voice of the Spirit, institutional church replaces the New Testament concept of informal, Spirit-led ekklesia.
Christianity is submissive cooperation with Christ, not a corporation that claims to represent Christ. If you’ve ever felt rejected by the institutional church, remember Jesus was rejected by the institutional synagogue.
Christianity proclaims Jesus is alive, so those of us who are Christians need to live like He is by listening to and obeying Him. You can’t follow the risen Jesus, if you’re unwilling to obey Him over self, other people, organizations, and government! (See Acts 5:29.)
To me, programming Christian worship is like programming the fans in March Madness. It kills the passion and spontaneity.
Here’s an observation. Visit a 12 step group and they’ll let you speak in the meeting. Visit a church service and they won’t.
Perhaps Palm Sunday means we’re supposed to put our palms together and give the risen Jesus a rousing, standing ovation! After all, on Palm Sunday, Jesus said this about the people making lots of noise for Him: “If they keep quiet, the stones will cry out.”
Holy Week? The holiness of a week depends on whether you walk with the risen Jesus; not on the dates on a church calendar. Holy Week reminds me that while I am wholly weak in self, I am a new creature in Christ!
A dead Jesus can’t lead a church service. The risen Jesus can! Let’s let Him. Since Easter means that Jesus is alive, perhaps churches could have an open mic and let Jesus direct the Easter service. Instead, on Easter churches proclaim Jesus is alive, but then tightly program and control the Easter service as if He’s not.
Bible commentaries and sermons are fine, but they can’t compare to reading the Bible for yourself with an open heart! Religious ritual or routine can never replace the richness of direct revelation from and ongoing relationship with the risen Jesus!